Does your body ever just shut down on you?
I took a half-day at work today in anticipation of a trip into NYC this evening to sip cocktails with SingleEdition friends. I wasn’t feeling so hot when I got home at 2pm. I had plenty of time, so I sat down …. then I woke up WAY later than I was supposed to.
I’m bummed out, but I guess my body needed a Time-Out.
I’m in a Time-Out with wanting a relationship right now as well. I have some residual Divorce things to wrap up and I am determined to do so, but until I do I don’t feel like I can commit myself elsewhere. Plus, I am having such a great time meeting people and making new local friends since moving to Morristown, which is something I haven’t had much opportunity/desire to do since moving to New Jersey 12 years ago.
My social “local” (RL) network has been pretty small over the years. Work, Online Dating and dash of Social Networks have been my resources for making friends … and now my meetup group! I love this group and have made some awesome new friends!
So, naturally a new social life leads to meeting new men and going out with men is typically considered dating, which conflicts with my relationship time out. I’m not ready to even open my mind to the thought of a relationship right now, but I do want to date, so what is the etiquette?
How do I communicate this clearly so that these guys knows where we stand?
I need to add in that while I am not open to a relationship today, that does not mean I wont wake up tomorrow and decide differently, but as men you really should know that about us women already!