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April 1st, 2010

Irrational Fear of the Phone

I have an irrational fear of phones…really it’s just talking on the phone. I spend most of my day at work on the phone so when I get home the last thing I want to do it talk on the phone.

Something funny that just occurred to me is that I also spend all day at work on the computer, yet on a typical evening when I get home the 1st thing I do is to fire up my laptop… but back to my phone phobia….

There are a few reasons why I am reserved about giving my phone number to guys I am chatting with online, but I would have to say the top three are:

#1. I have one of those “pleasant phone” voices… and when I am tired it gets raspy and moan-y … and well I think you get the picture. Until it has been established that you are a guy I am interested in meeting and we are making plans to, well – I prefer you not get a voice crush on me.
#2. It gets in the way of me being able to do the important things in my life like cook, wash dishes, vacuum, shower, talk to my cats, ect… and I am just no the kind of chick to walk around with a blue-tooth in her ear. If I can put you on speaker and chat while continuing to do other things then so be it, but I am a busy girl and sitting on the phone is not conducive to my lifestyle.
#3. One of these days my number will end up in the hands of some psycho phone stalker. I imagine they are like bill collectors but 10 times worse! I have yet to experience a crazy caller scenario (probably because I am so cautious about giving my number out) but I just know one of these days – WHAMMO! Time to change my Number!

A few months back I posted my thoughts on my other blog about Google Voice being a dater’s dream and I gotta tell you, if you are anything like me and the least bit weary about giving out your digits, then you just might need to get yourself a Google Voice account!

So tell me, readers – what are guidelines for giving your phone number out?

August 3rd, 2009

Google Voice: A Dater’s Dream!

While I am still quite new to the “Dating” scene, I’ve spent the past few months communicating with potential Dates through online dating. One thing I have noticed is that not everyone is at the same level when it comes to communication.  There are plenty of us who are comfortable socializing via chat and email, but there are also many who despite their participation on the sites, just aren’t as savvy in those areas of communication.

I’ve met a great deal of guys (briefly) who want to move right to voice communication and request my phone number in the 1st 3 message exchanges. Now, that might be fine for some, but I guess I am a little weary about giving out my actual phone number out. You really never know what the other party’s calling habits are and I’m limited to the times when I actually want to sit on the phone and chat with someone. My Digital ADD doesn’t help much either LOL.

So you can imagine how happy I was when Google Voice was released! I didn’t pay much attention at first, despite getting two early invites. Then as I saw it pop-up more and more in my Blogosphere I dug one of the invites out of my Gmail trash and signed up!

Let me just say that this application has already proved itself extremely useful in my dating life. I selected a local number which is linked to my account, then I forwarded the calls to my Cell. If you are on a Blackberry (like me)  or Android you can even get an App for your phone! Sorry iPhone, no such luck although I did hear if you are jail broken you can still get the app, but it’s no longer available on the Mobile Apps Page

The biggest benefits I’ve found are the controls – you have the ability to limit when calls are forwarded to your phone. I restrict calls from forwarding during my work day. Whenever someone calls and leaves me a voice mail I receive a transcript via SMS so I know right away if I missed anyone worth calling back.

When calls are forwarded, If the caller is in my address book it will display the caller’s information to me, but when I answer I am still given the choice to accept or deny the call! How great is that? Oh and there is a really great Gadget you can install on your iGoogle homepage too! It displays recent calls and allows you to send SMS from right within the page!

Did I mention you can Block callers? No more crazy (read: Horny) callers in the middle of the night! That’s certainly not all this awesome application has to offer though. Currently it’s “Invitation Only“, but I highly recommend requesting an invitation – it will make your dating life so much better!!

Read about all the features here!

or watch this video!

XOXO

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